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On OkCupid, you’re more than just a photo. You have stories to tell, and passions to share, and things to talk about that are more interesting than the weather. Get noticed for who you are, not what you look like. Because you deserve what dating deserves: better. By clicking Join, you agree to our Terms. We got married in August 2016, surrounded by close family and friends. We had a fusion of Pakistani and Western wedding traditions; it was a beautiful mix. Thank you, OkCupid, for bringing us and our two very different cultures together.”. We also encourage you to read our help page Non-Monogamy on OkCupid for more tips and tricks. If you're also partnered or married. We're still glad to have you. You'll want to set your profile as Partnered or Married. You'll be able to do this once you've selected that you're non-monogamous.
At OkCupid, we welcome everyone, and support all types of relationships! 🎉
In case the terminology is new to you:
- monogamous relationships are (generally) those in which two partners are romantically and sexually exclusive with each other.
- non-monogamous relationships are those in which people are in some way(s) not exclusive with a single other partner; as an umbrella-term 'non-monogamy' covers a lot of possible areas of non-exclusivity including (but not limited to):
- people who are not romantically exclusive with a single other partner
- people who are not sexually exclusive with a single other partner
- partners who date other people independently of each other
- partners who date other people together
- relationship anarchists Ⓐ 🤘
- tons more possibilities: 'non-monogamy' contains multitudes, and it's a multitudinous world 🌍🌎🌏
When you're signing up for OkCupid, you'll see a 'Non-monogamy options' link:
If you are on OkCupid looking for a monogamous relationship
Welcome! We're glad to have you. You'll want to set your profile as Monogamous.
Once you do so, you will see and be seen by only other people looking for (or open to) a monogamous relationship. You will not see or be seen by people who have said that they are non-monogamous.
If you are on OkCupid looking for (a) non-monogamous relationship(s)
Welcome! We're glad to have you. You'll want to set your profile as Non-monogamous.
Once you do so, you will see and be seen by only other people looking for (or open to) a non-monogamous relationship. You will not see or be seen by people who have said that they are monogamous.
We also encourage you to read our help page Non-Monogamy on OkCupid for more tips and tricks.
If you're also partnered or married
Still welcome! We're still glad to have you. You'll want to set your profile as Partnered or Married. You'll be able to do this once you've selected that you're non-monogamous.
If you are on OkCupid and you're open to (but not set on) monogamy or non-monogamy
Welcome! We're glad to have you. You'll want to set your profile as Open to Either.
Once you do so, you will see and be seen by other people looking for monogamous or non-monogamous relationships, and by other folks open to either option.
In case your preference changes in the future
You can always change your monogamy/non-monogamy preference on your profile. Tap/click the profile section that shows your relationship preference to change preferences, or to link/unlink your partner's account.
Remember: you should talk to each other!
Regardless of which of these options you choose, we think it's best to be upfront and honest about your expectations around exclusivity. To borrow some good advice from our friends at Tinder:
The next time you start feeling a connection with someone, don’t be afraid to speak your truth upfront. Once you make a habit of clearly stating your expectations and boundaries, you’re going to attract people who are also direct, honest, and know how to communicate.
If you still need help, you can email a friendly human.
Looking for the best OkCupid profile examples you can use to get more likes?
We’ve put together OkCupid profile “About Me” examples for each of the 6 prompts OkCupid lets you choose from.
Try these ideas out and see which one is the best fit for your OkCupid profile!
OkCupid Profile “About Me” #1: My Self-summary
OkCupid’s first and most popular “About me” prompt is “My self-summary”. This OkCupid profile option is so general that it can feel daunting to come up with an original and interesting way to summarize yourself.
Our favorite go-to is to list three favorite things — foods, hobbies, movies — whatever you’re passionate about.
Limiting your list to three keeps your summary succinct and makes people interested in learning more about you instead of thinking they already have you figured out.
Examples
Jocelyn, 28
My self-summary
Bad horror movies, sour beer, running in Riverside Park
Peter, 30
My self-summary
Matcha addict, Minecraft architect, Michael Bay film critic
OkCupid Profile “About Me” #2: Favorite Thing
Unless you’re traveling, most people seeing your OkCupid profile probably live in the same area as you. So answering the “favorite thing about the place I live” prompt with something very general about your city, like “sunshine, mountains, the people” isn’t all that compelling.
OkCupid profiles that offer a very specific interesting fact or anecdote are much more likely to get a doubletake.
Examples
Renee, 24
Favorite thing about the place I live
I can get CBD tinctures for myself and my dog from at least 3 places on my block.
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Stephen, 26
Favorite thing about the place I live
We have arguably the best Indian food in the state, nay, the west.
OkCupid Profile “About Me” #3: People Who Know Me…
Think of your OkCupid profile as your dating resume. Your relationship prospects don’t need to see a list of qualities you think you are (funny, warm, team player). Instead, let your personality speak for itself when you share things your friends would say about you.
We like this most likely/least likely template for answering the “most people that know me would say I’m…” prompt.
Examples
Lee, 23
Most people that know me would say I’m
most likely to find reasons to order takeout, least likely to cook
Casey, 22
Most people that know me would say I’m
Most likely to initiate game night, least likely to go to a football game
OkCupid Profile “About Me” #4: Favorite Childhood Memory
We’ve noticed most people tend to stick to the default “my self-summary” OkCupid profile prompt, so you’re more likely to stand out from the pack just by choosing the lesser-known “favorite memory from my childhood”.
Sharing a funny or wholesome memory strikes the perfect chord of intimate without being creepy, and will make people want to swipe right to learn more.
Examples
Jessica, 21
Favorite memory from my childhood
Eating Klondike bars for breakfast whenever we were on vacation
Mark, 26
Favorite memory from my childhood
Riding my bike from dawn til dusk every day during the summer without a care in the world.
OkCupid Profile “About Me” #5: Things I am not
Using emojis for the OkCupid profile prompt “Things I am not” is the perfect chance to reveal your sassy side.
Emojis can be interpreted in many different ways, so describing yourself with them in your OkCupid profile will lead to follow-up questions in your chat.
Examples
Gwen, 23
Things I am not
🎨, 🔮, 🍸, 💩
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Richard, 28
Things I am not
👽, 💀, 🏄, ☕
OkCupid Profile “About Me” #6: Haiku
Picking “Me, a Haiku” as your OkCupid profile prompt is bold, bound to impress, and easier than you think!
Just decide what 3 attributes or hobbies you’d most want to include in your profile and play around with them to fit the 5/7/5 syllable format.
Examples
Kennedy, 29
Me, a Haiku
Yoga instructor.
Animal rights activist.
Macrame dabbler.
Jason, 33
Me, a Haiku
Game of Thrones critic.
Sky diving is my passion.
Caffeine fuels my life.
NOTE: Even the most 🔥🔥🔥 OkCupid profile can’t make up for bad pics…
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If your pics are blah, it’s game over.
People only even read a person’s OkCupid profile after already liking their pics.
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